Sexuality

Thoughts concerning our genitals and what we do with them.

August 06, 2004
A Test for Evil: Homosexuality

I'd like to suggest a test for evil and use homosexuality as the subject. The test is simple: an act can be called evil if it causes harm.

Posted by Joel at 01:36 PM | Read More
April 23, 2004
Reverend Lou Sheldon

Reverend Lou Sheldon claims never to have said those words. Which is funny because he's said an awful lot of words like them!

Posted by Joel at 07:25 PM | Read More
March 30, 2004
Um....

Did Yule let Rageboy take over her blog while she was somewhere else?

Posted by Joel at 01:32 AM | Read More
February 19, 2004
The Golden Rule and Getting Laid

"Hey, I like people coming up to me and saying 'Do you want to have sex with me?' So it's OK for me to ask, right?"

Posted by Joel at 01:52 PM | Read More
February 09, 2004
The Breast of the Virgin

Many years ago, when I was in Greece, I picked up an icon of the Virgin Mary in a jewelry store and sent it home to my mother.

Posted by Joel at 03:51 PM | Read More
January 25, 2004
PSAS

Jean Lund had a problem: As a sufferer of Persistant Sexual Arousal Syndrome (PSAS), she experienced orgasms hundreds of times each day.

Posted by Joel at 09:51 PM | Read More
December 14, 2003
Testosterone Poisoning

I'd always suspected this of my locker room peers.

Posted by Joel at 10:37 PM | Read More
November 10, 2003
Lek Maniac?

Never have I seen such an outrageous display of balls in my life!

Posted by Joel at 10:09 PM | Read More
November 04, 2003
Things were different in the 1950s

During the 1950s, high school seniors could watch stag films, get drunk, and dance with "pert" and "plucky" girls and not have a hard on!

Posted by Joel at 05:06 PM | Read More
September 30, 2003
Valyermo 6

The peace of the garden could have been Eden.

Posted by Joel at 09:41 PM | Read More
September 14, 2003
Mothering and Work Among the Futurists

What a future! Can't we think of another?

Posted by Joel at 07:24 PM | Read More
September 08, 2003
Lesbians and Feminity

And it's entirely possible that the test is screwed up. It was correct 2/3s of the time. I wouldn't undergo transexual surgery with those odds.

Posted by Joel at 10:49 PM | Read More
September 07, 2003
Gender Genie Feels You Out

In the wake of these revelations (more evidence that I have an enlarged clitoris), I went down the list of blogs in my daily walk. I discovered that according to Gender Genie, many people weren't what they seemed to be.

Posted by Joel at 02:30 AM | Read More
August 26, 2003
An Apology Explained

I don't know exactly why Shelley found it offensive in the context of her own blatantly sexual remarks. I add that I don't require an explanation. It suffices that Shelley announced that she found it offensive, that I had crossed her boundaries of propriety.

Posted by Joel at 07:42 PM | Read More
August 09, 2003
The Member in Question

I feel bound to defend my honor as a small time penis pundit and present you my full answer to her question How important is a big dick, anyway?

Posted by Joel at 11:15 PM | Read More
July 30, 2003
On Choice and Sexual Preference

Some of my friends who are gay and lesbian feel the need to defend the idea that as long as something a person does does no harm to anyone else, it is okay to do.

Posted by Joel at 09:04 PM | Read More
July 27, 2003
Albert Schweitzer and Britney Spears?!

But it brings me back to an "overwhelming question" and you don't have to ask "What is it?" because I am going to tell you: in all our cultural criticism of sex sirens, what are we doing focusing on what the women do rather than on what men want?

Posted by Joel at 05:29 PM | Read More
July 25, 2003
Britney Spears Revisited

I owe Britney Spears an apology for what I said the other day. She did not deserve to be called a whore.

Posted by Joel at 01:43 PM | Read More
July 24, 2003
Hunting Confirmed?

Living in this world of violence pornography, surrounded by men who love it, can we really say that she is making a fully informed choice?

Posted by Joel at 02:44 PM | Read More
Hunting Women

Civil libertarian that I am, allowing as I do the expression of many bizarre practices as long as they do no harm to those involved, I must scream that willing or not, this harms not only the woman who runs but all women.

Posted by Joel at 12:24 AM | Read More
July 20, 2003
Britney Spears

Would I be the first? they asked themselves. Would I be the first to break Britney open and cause her belly to swell?

Posted by Joel at 03:21 PM | Read More
May 16, 2003
A Watch on the Fringe of BDSM

Living in a county where power plays and BDSM are common, I remain wary of the art of whips and chains.

Posted by Joel at 05:20 PM | Read More
May 13, 2003
Squaring Off and Circling

I wonder, though, if there are others --women who register "masculine" or men who register "feminine" -- who don't feel a need to change their bodies and/or who aren't the attracted to their own sex yet fighting the fight to be themselves against all preconceptions out there?

Posted by Joel at 01:34 AM | Read More
March 13, 2003
Trading Places

I should like to trade places with a woman, body for body, for a month.

Posted by Joel at 02:55 PM | Read More
January 27, 2003
Woman-Proof Shield?

I'll show them my heart, but not my body. Which is the reverse, I think, of most men.

Posted by Joel at 10:45 PM | Read More
September 09, 2002
Having Choices

Red's actually touched on one of those vague life issues that I've been trying to put into words for a long time.

Posted by Joel at 11:54 AM | Read More
August 08, 2002
Camel Toes

Now Karen and Kelly Caldwell both have me paranoid: each either implied or said straight out that she looks at crotches.

Posted by Joel at 05:11 PM | Read More
July 20, 2002
Falling in Love All the Time

I'm not as stupid as the Piltdown Man....

Posted by Joel at 01:39 PM | Read More
June 29, 2002
Secrets

IRC people will tell you nearly any thing in private, so long as you don't blurt it out on the channel.

Posted by Joel at 07:12 PM | Read More